This post could be subtitled, "Or, The Quickest Way to a Headache."
Swim days are crazy days for our family. Besides the drive (clear across town) to and from the swim school and the hour in the water, the team practices end precisely 10 minutes before M2 gets out of school. It takes me 17 minutes (on a good day) to get across town. It takes at least 5 minutes for M1 to get out of the water, dry off, claim a dressing room, change, and get out of the locker room... and that's assuming that he doesn't get involved in a game of snap-towel with some of the other boys.
(By the way, what IS it with boys and locker rooms?!? I simply do not understand why it takes them at least twice as long as the girls to get dressed... and the girls come out looking neat and clean and the boys come out looking like... well, like they just got out of some sort of cage brawl. It drives me crazy.)
Anyway, so team practice ends, I wait the 5-7 minutes for M1 to get changed, and we get in the car. By the time we hit highway #1, M2 is already out of school, which means I'm racing the clock to pick her up before the teachers who have car line duty take her back into the school for aftercare.
*IF* M1 gets dressed in a timely manner, I can make it in plenty of time. This has been hit-and-miss, but I think I finally instilled a sense of urgency into the boy by threatening to make him pay for aftercare every time she has to go ($2.50 a pop). So after practice earlier this week, he busted his butt and was out in two minutes flat. I was thrilled! We got in the car, made the left onto the onramp to get onto the highway... and stopped. Dead stop. Then I noticed the pretty red and blue lights on the highway where traffic was narrowing down to one lane from three because someone had changed lanes into the back of another car and spun it out. Fantastic PIT maneuver, I'll grant, but it's not really one you do on the highway unless you ARE the cop and you ARE administering justice. I don't think that was what happened here.
Anyway, I was late getting M2.
Then we had another swim practice. I thought to myself, "There's no way it'll be backed up two sessions in a row," so I decided to go the same way. The same way I always go. Again, M1 busted his backside and escaped the locker room quickly.
And again, I got onto the onramp just in time to see that - AGAIN - the traffic was at a full stop. And this time, the wreck wasn't visible because it was two miles away.
Un-freaking-believable. I do believe this is the definition of winning, isn't it??
Next week, I'll test traffic and see what I can jack up by going a different direction. After all, it isn't fair for me to condemn the same people to traffic jams all the time. Gotta spread the love.